How to Know if Your Child Has Albinism


There are several degrees of albinism.  One type affects the skin, hair, and eyes.  Others may not affect all three.  For parents who are unsure of what to look for, here are some helpful pointers.
Albinism is a hereditary condition in which the body does not produce enough of the pigment melanin.

When babies are first born, it is difficult if not impossible, to immediately diagnose albinism when one or both parents have a light skin color.  It is easier to diagnose in ethnic backgrounds where both parents have normally darker skin.  Albinism is a static condition, so it is not crucial to diagnose it early.  If a child has albinism, they will always have it, but the condition will not worsen over time.  If a baby with albinism has a head full of hair when they are born, many people will quickly notice how light and how beautiful that hair is.  In extreme cases, the child’s eyes may appear to be pink, but normally, they will be blue or brown.

In the first few months, as your child becomes aware of their surroundings, look for back-and-forth eye movement of their eyes when they attempt to focus on objects.  If you do notice this, the condition is known as nystagmus and it is one indicator of albinism.  Also, you may notice that your child tilts their head to the side and looks at things from the corner of their eyes.  Talk to your child’s pediatrician if you notice these things.  They may refer you to a pediatric ophthalmologist for further testing.

The ophthalmologist will examine the child’s eyes and look for things like translumination of the iris, decreased visual acuity, or sensitivity to light.  The true test that will determine the child’s vision cannot be done until they are old enough to read an eye chart, but there are tests that may be done when they are very young to find a close estimate.  One test uses white rectangular boards with printed lines on one end.  The doctor will test the child to see if they notice the lines when the board is suddenly presented.

If each doctor gives a diagnosis of albinism, you can have genetic testing done to confirm their findings.  The results of the genetic test will help you to know the best way to care for your child and any precautions that should be taken.  If the skin, eyes, and hair are all affected, the child will need very good protection from the sun at all times and limited exposure.  Children whose skin is not affected may still have problems with their vision.  Reducing glare in the rooms in your home and also in classrooms when they start school will help them to remain comfortable.

There are a number of organizations who support individuals with albinism and also parents of children with albinism.  Do some research and you will find assistance in many areas.  The most important thing to do is to treat your child just like any other child because they are just like any other child.  Having albinism should not prohibit them from enjoying the same things as everyone else.  Parents will just need to take precautions that other parents really should take with their children anyway.


NOAH – The National Organization for Albinism and Hypopigmentation

How to Search for Your Ancestors


Discover the rich history of your family through patience and diligent research and illuminate your past!  You may be a descendant of royalty or perhaps a famous historical character and not even know it.

The quest to enrich your knowledge of family history begins at home with your closest living relatives.  Parents, aunts and uncles, grandparents, and even great-grandparents are the most reliable resources available to you to acquire family stories and secrets that nobody else could possibly know.  Don’t let the precious time you have with them slip away.  Take advantage of each opportunity to reminisce about the past and learn more and more about your family.  Record everything in the form of notes, audio recordings, and video.  One day, you’ll be glad you did.

Look through the family Bible if your family has one.  It used to be tradition in many families to record births, deaths, and other significant events in the family Bible.  To dig even further into the past, join one of the many online resources for genealogy research.  Why do all the footwork when someone out there may have already filled in many portions of your pedigree?  You can also use the library as a research tool by looking through old newspaper clippings and history books.

If you can determine the location where your ancestors lived the majority of their lives and the church they attended, you may be able to locate their name in the church’s records.  If you’re lucky, you may also discover their grave marker.  If you do, be sure to clear away any debris from the marker, take a digital picture, and include it into your online family tree.  Leave some flowers as a show of respect.  There are also free websites dedicated to listing grave marker information and pictures to which you can contribute.

Travel to the countries, the cities, the small towns, or the villages where your ancestors lived.  Sometimes, the locals have stories to tell or your family may have left a unique impression.  Above all, be sure to record anything of interest.  Sometimes pieces of the puzzle don’t make sense until they are matched with others.  Be sure your story is told as well.  Keep a journal or even a blog so that in the future, your descendants can learn more about your life experiences.


How to Stay Faithful to Your Spouse while Attending a Bachelor Party


The bachelor party is scheduled and you’re all ready to go.  Your spouse is a little uneasy about you going out partying with a bunch of rowdy buddies.  How can you put their mind at ease and keep yourself out of trouble.

It is a certainty that most bachelor parties will get out-of-hand at some point.  That doesn’t mean you have to forget your morals and let your guard down.  Keep pictures of your spouse and kids in your wallet.  Take them out and look at them periodically to remind yourself how lucky you are to have a family who loves you.  Before you go to the party, practice saying “No thank you.  I’m married” in the mirror over and over.

Have fun, but don’t drink too much.  Try to keep your senses about you so that you don’t do anything you’ll regret.  Take breaks from the party.  Excuse yourself like you’re going to the restroom and go drink a glass of water.

Call your spouse on your cell phone and let them know where you are and that you’re OK.  Do this several times during the evening and don’t forget to tell them how much you love them.  Be sure your wedding ring stays on your finger, not on a necklace around your neck or in your pocket or in the dresser at home.  Be proud that you’re married and let everybody who’s interested enough to look at your hand know this.